The Human Leech
As humans we try to create special bonds with one another and try our best to make it work, but what happens when someone becomes a parasite? Do we just let that person cling onto us and suck us dry, hopefully not. Recently a certain someone as found their way onto my skin.
A young person who is sweet, nice, and frankly delusional has forged there friendship with me. I would have no problem if they left a little bit of breathing room between us, but she does not; consistently following me and commenting on the very words I have yet to say. Before I can tell you how I killed this leech I first have to tell you the very thin line between a stalker and a leech. Stalker are oppressively crazy about you and would love to have you for themselves, and a leech is simply an annoyance that can not and will not leave you alone . Ok, now that we have that done.
How to kill a leech step 1. Tell them
I know some people think it's rude to directly tell a person off, and it is! If it gets to the point were you imagine yourself killing them, then it's time to tell that person exactly how you feel and what you can't deal with.
How to kill a leech step 2 if you're too scared to tell them. Leave
Shut down all contact with that particular person and hopefully (maybe!) they will get the picture that you are not interested in what they have to say to you or anything they would like to do with you. This is also harsh, but if the person can not comprehend the word "space" then maybe that's what needs to happen
A young person who is sweet, nice, and frankly delusional has forged there friendship with me. I would have no problem if they left a little bit of breathing room between us, but she does not; consistently following me and commenting on the very words I have yet to say. Before I can tell you how I killed this leech I first have to tell you the very thin line between a stalker and a leech. Stalker are oppressively crazy about you and would love to have you for themselves, and a leech is simply an annoyance that can not and will not leave you alone . Ok, now that we have that done.
How to kill a leech step 1. Tell them
I know some people think it's rude to directly tell a person off, and it is! If it gets to the point were you imagine yourself killing them, then it's time to tell that person exactly how you feel and what you can't deal with.
How to kill a leech step 2 if you're too scared to tell them. Leave
Shut down all contact with that particular person and hopefully (maybe!) they will get the picture that you are not interested in what they have to say to you or anything they would like to do with you. This is also harsh, but if the person can not comprehend the word "space" then maybe that's what needs to happen
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